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​​"Where Do I Even Start?..."
That is almost always the question I get when visiting people in their homes. They look around, seemingly lost, the anxious look on their face tells me everything I need to know. They are so overwhelmed by chaos that they just can't begin to separate the necessary from the unnecessary.

Steps to Success in Minimizing Your Possesions

1. Categorize- collect all of the same item from your whole house. Then you can see just how many purses, shoes, shirts, toys, etc. you have. Look at each item separately, when is the last time you wore it or used it? If it's been 6 months or more, donate it, sell it, give it away. Get it out of your house and out of your life.

"But I might need it in the future..."

We are fortunate enough to live in a country where pretty much any material item we need or want we can go to the store and buy for a relatively inexpensive cost. In fact, that is what I believe has led to this "materialistic epidemic" of the first world. With sites like varage, bidding wars, craigslist, and thrift shops, we can buy and sell things for minimal cost. And it helps the environment by not purchasing something brand new which drives the industrial demand of production. Reduce, reuse, recycle. Whatever you're not using, someone else could be.


"My mother/aunty/grandma/son/daughter, etc gave or made it for me..."

​Emotional attachment to items is the hardest factors when it comes to letting something go. Most of the time it's something you never use, but the memory is there. It makes it even harder if the person who gave it to us is no longer here. Take a picture of the item and then put the item away in storage. In a few months bring up the picture to look at. Does it give you the same feeling? If it does, you know that the item isn't what you need, but the memory that needs triggering.
 If you don't get the same feeling or memory without touching the item, go and get it from storage. If it makes you happy, keep it. I'm not about to encourage people to get rid of sentimental items that promote happiness. My goal is to help people determine what's actually important enough to keep in their life.

2. Identify 'needs' from 'wants'

How often do you say "I need that purse/shirt/thing".
Do you really need it? Can you eat it, breathe it, live in it? Many of us believe that things make us happy. Even though its been proven that experiences and relationships promote happiness and contentment, not material items.
How necessary is it to have in your life?

Not only will you save money by spending less, your house will be easier to clean with less stuff in it.

3. Toys, toys, toys

Kids always have way too many toys, and they always want more. Teach your child from a young age the importance of necessity. You will find that they will be much more appreciative of any new items. At Birthdays and Christmas, recommend that friends and family do not buy toys for your kids, but a contribution to their RESP, a gift certificate to a play gym or recreation center, or gift card would be more appropriate. Or if they bring something from their own home to regift.

4. Overstocking Food

Even I'm guilty of this one. We buy way too much food! Our fridge and pantry are stocked full, but why? We live five minutes to the supermarket, but our busy lives lead us to stock up on food. Meal planning for the week and only buying exact amounts will help cut down on food waste.
Use up what's in your fridge and freezer completely before shopping for more. You'll probably be surprised how long you can go without grocery shopping. The issue is when you run out of one item you use often, you end up doing a big shop because you're already there at the store.


"But its cheaper to buy in bulk"

This is true. Oh Costco... Costco is wonderful, I have to admit, but how much cheaper is it really if only half the ten pound bag of apples get eaten?

5. Make your home a comfortable and stress free environment


How are we supposed to relax when our busy lives don't let us breathe even for a minute, and then come home to an environment that stresses us out. No wonder things get neglected, spare rooms and storage spaces become the catch all for stuff that we don't have time to organize. We are so busy and disorganized that when we can't find what we are looking for we buy it again, wasting time, space and money. We need to prioritize our home so that it can be our safe haven.

Talking is a great way to work though these feelings. It’s all apart of the cleansing and decluttering process.

Clean up un-wanted items: 
Reselling: I am happy to help you try to recoup some money from your stuff! There are several options. Craigslist, Facebook Marketplace, consignment stores such as Once Upon a Child, Not for Long, Turnabout, etc. I can help you post things or take them to appropriate locations.
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I will take any unwanted items to the donation or recycling center, or dump if required. I charge for my time to get there accordingly, usually only a half hour.


items. Things to consider when going through things are: How often do I use it? Is it important to me sentimentally? Is it valuable? Is it easily replaceable? Does its existence in my home serve me in a positive way?
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Furniture and Supplies
I’m happy to purchase any furniture, boxes, bins, or other supplies we agree on and bring them on the workday to help organize your home. I charge my regular hourly rate as a shopping service fee for collecting and delivering these items—usually about one hour, depending on the amount. Alternatively, I can provide you with a shopping list so you can purchase supplies yourself. Please note, any supplies bought during organizing are non-refundable. I also carry a stock of commonly used supplies to every job at no extra shopping fee.​​

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My Personal Picks

​​We strongly believe that business is based on relationships. Throughout our time helping clients organize and declutter their homes several key services areas always come up. Having worked personally and professionally with each of these vendors, we can refer them to our clients. Each have been hand picked due to their trustworthiness and reputation.
General HandyMan (Greater Vancouver and Fraser Valley )
Michael Reese Handyman and Electrical Services
Painting Service
 Sam-Leen Painting, Mike Zado 
Mechanical & Plumber ( Fraser Valley) 
McIntosh Mechanical ​
Cleaning (Chilliwack)
Cleaning Service - Citrine Clean Brittany 
Upholstery and Furniture Refinishing and Repairs 
Full Moon Upholstery, Craig Pratt 
Carpet Cleaning & Upholserty ( Chilliwack)
www.mrsteampro.ca/
Carpet and Upholstery Cleaning (Langley, Surrey)
UltraSheen
Real Estate Agent Tina Shaw ( Langley/White Rock) 
tinashaw.ca/
Real Estate Agent-Alecs Sharpe ​( Chilliwack)
alekssharpe.com/
Home Staging ( Fraser Valley and Greater Vancouver area )
Stephanie Hilton stephaniehiltondesign.com/  
Counselling (Chilliwack, Fraser Valley)
New Hope Counselling www.newhopecounsellingsite.com/
Non Profit Business Empowerment ( Fraser Valley) 
Community Futures South Fraser southfraser.com/
Skin Care Clinic and Medical  Spa (Chilliwack) 
shanesthetics.com/
Crystal Bowl Sound Healing
www.thedaphoenix.com/
College Street Victory Church (Chilliwack)
www.wherepeoplematter.church/
Musical Instrument Sales and Repairs - Kings Music (Fraser Valley)
www.kingsmusic.ca/

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